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That is powerful; thank you for sharing. The thing that strikes me about "Evidence" is how alone she sounds (even with the back-up singers). She is angry but mostly she's exhausted and not ready to deal with what comes next.

I was amused to see you mention "Good Year For The Roses" because I had thought of it as soon as you mentioned the lipstick.

There's a song which I think of as the man's (inadequate) response in this situation -- "Don't Change Horses (In The Middle Of The Stream)" in which he says that yes, things might seem tough right now, but isn't that exactly the wrong time to be making a big decision. I like the song, and I think it exposes the self-centeredness of the man who is genuinely scared that she'll leave, and wants her to stay, but can't really offer to help carry the weight. He's just hoping that she'll decide to keep carrying it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WAIFl_ezic

"Hey, I know that enough is enough

But you shouldn't be talking 'bout givin' it up

Turn it loose, it might be right it seems

The wrong decision will spoil all our dreams

If you don't want to spoil our secret dreams

Don't change horses in the middle of a stream"

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